This will most likely anger people who take the words out of context, take it personally, or who do not make it to the end of the video.
However, I find it’s an important point to get across. The idea, to do what’s easy to LIVE WITH long term, rather than doing what is EASY right now so you don’t “feel bad.”
I feel it is an important to realize that by failing to be an “asshole” in one encounter, you are being an asshole to hundreds of other people. It isn’t about doing the “right” thing, because the “right” thing by one person can equally be the “wrong” thing by another 1000 people.
Which is right? You’ll know what is. Listen to yourself.